Just a quick word of hello - I'm Leese, one of the volunteers at Foal Farm. My official 'job' title is Cat Fusser, although it can also be described as Cat Socialiser, Cat Cuddler, or Crazy Cat Lady. I think I prefer Cat Socialiser, as I worry Cat Fusser makes me sound slightly demented.
So what are my qualifications for this job? Well, I've never worked with animals professionally, but I have had the unimaginable joy of living with cats for the last 16 years. In the early 1990s, when I was about 11 years old, I finally managed to persuade my parents that getting a cat was actually, yes, a neat idea. Since we lived in a tenth-floor flat, spacious as it was, we decided to get two cats to keep each other company - a tabby and a black-and-white. The latter was decided upon because my mother, in her words, didn't want to be tripping over an invisible black cat when she got up in the pitch-dark of the night.
We bought two kittens from a local petshop (and yes, I do feel guilty we didn't get them from a rescue centre, but my awareness of animal politics at age 11 was virtually nil), and I named the tabby Tiger (original, huh?) and the black-and-white - who would not sit still - Fidget. It was less than a week later, on a trip to another petshop for kitty supplies, that I noticed a small black cat in the animal cages. She was meowing constantly, loudly, looking pathetic. Needless to say, we took her home. From the moment we took her out of the cage, she didn't make a single sound for about a year. I remember coming home from school one day and my dad excitedly telling me that Midnight "spoke" for the first time. It was like having your child say her first word.
Midnight was a real education for me in terms of learning cat behaviour, and I'm pretty sure she's the reason I'm volunteering at Foal Farm today. She wasn't what I expected a 'typical' cat to be. She was friendly, definitely (I fell asleep on the sofa one time, face down, and awoke to her curled up on the small of my back, purring like a motor), but she didn't like being picked up or touched very much. This puzzled me. How could she come up to me, sniff my face and rub up against my side, but turn and hiss when I stroked her back? Why did she flop onto her side, showing her belly, then scratch and claw at me when I went to tickle her? And why did she freeze up, stiff as a board, when I picked her up for a cuddle? Was she demented? Didn't she understand I was only trying to show her I loved her?
It took me years to learn to adapt my behaviour with Midnight, and it was a learning curve that went on until we were both fully grown. The first step for me was understanding that I had to stop trying to press upon her my idea of what I expected a cat to be. I wanted a cuddle, but she didn't. I had to respect that. I eventually understood that I didn't need to show her I loved her by hugging her or stroking her excessively - I was showing her I loved her just by letting her sniff me when she wanted, or by letting her rub against my legs when she wanted to. Her favourite thing was for me to lie on the floor while she walked around me, rubbing against me with her head and side, until she finished up with her back to me and would give me a series of hearty whacks in the face with her whip-like tail. While I tried to discreetly spit cat hair from my mouth, she would look over her shoulder and grin at me.
Gradually, I noticed a change in her. She was more mellow, and would accept more physical contact. I could stroke her on her back for longer; very occasionally, on her stomach. Eventually, she was even happier with being picked up, although not for very long. By letting her choose the boundaries of our physical contact, I took the pressure off her, and she became happier for it. By knowing she could choose how much contact we had and when, her defenses came down and she showed more affection.
Midnight passed away a couple of year ago, at around 14 years old. She was always prone to urinary tract infections, and eventually her kidneys failed and we had to put her to sleep. I miss her every day, but the one thing that makes me happiest is knowing that I was able to work to understand her and to make her life easier. If I'd blundered on, trying to make her the perfect cat, she'd have spent her life miserable.
One of the main reasons that animals are rehomed and then returned to rescue centres is because they are perceived to be aggressive. Looking after animals and knowing their needs is as difficult - and in many ways, I feel, more difficult - than raising children. An animal can never tell you with words how it feels or what it wants. We have to learn to read their body language, which is all an animal understands. It's my goal in this blog to discuss cat behaviour issues, in particular relating to the cats staying at Foal Farm, who I try to visit every weekend. I'll be updating often with my experiences of 'fussing' the Foal Farm cats, and pictures of their antics. If you're thinking of rehoming a cat, I hope that this blog will give you some handy advice, and allow you to see a more playful side of the cats in their cages. Who knows, you might spot one you fall in love with!
I've had the pleasure of sharing my life with 3 beautiful domestic shorthairs, and although Tiger and Midnight have now passed away (Fidget is still going strong at 16 years old, having survived high blood pressure, rodent ulcers, diabetes, blindness, steroid-induced obesity, and an unhealthy obsession with cheesy Wotsits), I wouldn't trade a moment of those fantastic years. I hope that if you're reading this blog and considering rehoming a cat, you'll take the leap and let one of these amazing furballs into your family. In exchange for a warm place to sleep, food and affection on demand, and the polite acceptance of 'gifts' of dead mice on the doorstep, they give you back so much.